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living with stress

July 31, 2020

weeds

I recently read an article about stress and realized I had experienced the entire list of top 5 most stressful life events in the last 2 years – a couple more than once!  I was glad to happen upon the list since it was satisfying to know I had successfully navigated through such a tough time in my life.

COVID-19, of course, presents its own unique kind of challenges and I doubt there is anyone not experiencing a whole new level of stress as a result of the pandemic!   It needs its own life experience stress list!

walking bridge

I am sure I am not alone in losing all my employment as a result of COVID-19 – it’s scary!

You may have noticed I haven’t been posting at my regular frequency and that is because all my time online is now spent job searching.  It is hard to find something to post when the main activity of the day is looking for job postings!

queens annes lace and needles
In the same way I was able to get through the last 2 years, I am determined to get through these COVID-19 times successfully and not suffer setbacks in all the progress I have made in my life.

berries on a walk

Spending every second behind the screen searching for open positions may not be the best for my stress level, so I am making a promise to myself to try and continue to post regularly – even if only one time each week.  Don’t worry – I won’t be posting job search details!  I am making a commitment to myself to change up my environment – even if only for a short time – at least once each week.

queens anne lace

I am hoping a different environment will change up my perspective and give me some new motivation each week.  This week I changed it up with a new walk!

How are you dealing with the stresses caused by COVID-19?

feet on bridge

Thanks for stopping by!

Remember to take pleasure in simple things, Jackie

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easy garden diy

June 5, 2020

pretty bird and diy

Some years back, I blogged about some easy DIY garden stakes based on some I had seen.  On a recent visit to my friend Wendy’s garden, I noticed she had added a bird to one of these stakes in an arrangement she created for her side door.  It is SO adorable, I need to share!

bucket of white flowers

You can read the original post/tutorial by clicking here if you’d like to create your own.  Just add a cute bird like Wendy did!

pretty bird and diy

Thanks for stopping by!

white clematis

Note:  The other photos in this post are also from Wendy’s gardens.  (Of course, I had to find a way to add some white flowers to the post!)

Have a fabulous weekend and remember to take pleasure in simple things, Jackie

 

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table fern display

June 2, 2020

pretty fern arrangement

Without hosting any company for such a long stretch, my dining room table décor from Easter never got updated…what for?   A lot of home updates did get attended to during isolation – caulking, cleaning, filing, etc., but some of the seasonal décor definitely got neglected!

In an attempt to cheer myself up, I decided to get rid of the decorated Easter eggs and add something a little more appropriate to the season to my dining room table.  What better way to brighten spirits than  a trip to Terrain?!  I figured if I just bought a couple little indoor ferns, I could create something nice and low cost for my dining room table.

dining room ferns

Walking around Terrain’s nursery definitely helped pick up my mood – as it always does!  And, because I only needed some small ferns, I was able to leave without much of an investment.

My plan was to use some of my Ben Wolff white clay pots to make a simple fern display.  Ben Wolff is a potter that does some amazing work.  I was never a fan of the traditional color clay pot, (click here and/or here to see two ways I have painted them!)  and since I am about all things white, his white clay pots are perfect for my aesthetic!  (His gray pots are also beautiful!  I am lucky that Ben’s studio is right here in Connecticut – close enough to visit and purchase my pots directly from the studio!

ferns on table

I simply planted the ferns in the white pots and arranged them down the middle of the table with some moss.  Easy and so beautifully satisfying!  The components are anchored in a 3-foot-long trough I purchased at Terrain many years ago.  I use it all the time and it is perfect to protect the table from seasonal arrangements.  (I don’t think the exact one I have is still available for purchase, but if you search ‘trough’ on the Terrain website, you should find some great alternatives!)

ferns with watering can

(To make my arrangement complete – I just need to find the pretty little terrarium rocks I have to cover the top of the dirt in the pots.  If I can’t find where I put them, I will use some little shells or sea glass.)

fern arrangement

I hope I have inspired you to add some new seasonal décor to your home – company or no company!

Thanks for stopping by!

starfish with fern

Remember to take pleasure in simple things, Jackie

P.S. The white watering can is Smith and Hawken from Target.

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study in pinks

May 22, 2020

treetops against the clouds

The weather in Connecticut has been really fabulous!  It is so refreshing to go for a walk when heavy coats or sweaters aren’t required!

pink dogwood tree

pink dogwood

When I do my workouts in the gym, I use music as a distraction – it almost feels like a type of meditation to focus solely on the music while pushing myself to perform.  Now that gyms are closed, I have had to find new and inventive ways to work out.  In addition to music, I find myself using nature to help meditate.  This past weekend, for one of my walks, I concentrated solely on pink flowers!  I tried to notice all the intricacies of every pink bloom I encountered!

pink trees against the clouds

pink petals

I find this is a great way to savor the beauty surrounding me and keeps my focus during a walk.

trees against the sun

single dogwood flower

Do you have anything special you do to help focus while exercising?

pink blooms

Thanks for stopping by!

tree blooms in pink

Have a fabulous holiday weekend and remember to take pleasure in simple things, Jackie

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a purple pop of flowers

May 15, 2020

purple pansies

We just had some snow here in Connecticut – not typical weather for May.  The cold snaps have made all the flower gardeners hesitant to get started with putting out annuals this year.

I usually use Mother’s Day as my ‘safe to plant’ indicator, but I know some of the experts say not to plant until after the new moon.

entrance purple flowers

With all the hesitation to get plants in the ground, it was so refreshing to see my friend Phyllis has started working on her garden décor.  The plantings she had put around her side entrance really look fabulous.  She changes things up each season and for spring she has incorporated a splash of purple into her creations.

porch topiary

purple with pussywillows

I hope seeing these flowers make you smile as much as I did when I saw them!

Thanks for stopping by and have a fabulous weekend!

 

Remember to take pleasure in simple things, Jackie

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savor

May 8, 2020

flowers on my walk

Is savor a verb you normally associate with eating or drinking?  It is so much more than that!

Experiences contribute so much more to our happiness than material items and by savoring, or enjoying something completely, we are creating happy moments!

flowering tree

One of the great gifts to come out of the quarantine experience for me is to be given more opportunities to savor things that surround me.

So, today I am suggesting you savor completely – like I did recently when appreciating these gorgeous trees on my daily walk.  I focused on them longer by telling someone else (you!) about them, stopping to smell them, taking photos of them, and sharing their beauty.

flowers among walking

It is a great gift to have the opportunity to stay in the present and appreciate something fully.

flowers while walking

I hope I have inspired you to take the opportunity to savor something today and contribute to your happiness!

flower savoring

Thanks for stopping by!

Remember to take pleasure in simple things, Jackie

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full instructions for decoupaged oyster shell trinket dishes

April 28, 2020

topiaries decoupage oyster shells

I usually don’t have a lot of patience for decoupaging, especially on a small surface like a shell since I could just as easily paint a pattern with a brush!  But, the challenge of finding an interesting pattern/color to use on the shell makes it a fun project for me – similar to picking out yarn combinations for knitted scarves!  Although, the current quarantine situation has strictly limited my choice of materials since I have to make do with what I currently have on hand.

lilac decoupaged oyster shells

Decoupaging is pretty easy.  A decoupage material is used to attach paper to a surface and is brushed on top of the paper as well to provide a protective surface.  Decoupaging shells is a little trickier because the surface you are applying the paper to is irregular.  This is the reason why using tissue paper or a napkin is a much better choice for this application over a heavier paper – it won’t show wrinkles as much when applied.  To get the best possible result when decoupaging a shell, use a paper napkin – removing the back layer and just using the top, thin layer with the imprinted design.

fern dish decoupage shell

Decoupage material is widely available at a craft store or Target – it is basically just a white glue mixed with enough water to make a thick, spreadable consistency.  When I was a kid, I would make it myself using the large container of white glue my dad kept in the garage.

oyster shell decoupage materials

To make decoupaged oyster shell trinket dishes you will need:

  • decoupage material (Mod Podge is a popular one)
  • 2 paint brushes – one with soft bristles (1/2” wide) and a smaller, detail brush
  • paper cocktail napkins in designs of your choice (separating them so you are only using the top layer of designed paper)
  • white acrylic paint
  • gold metallic acrylic paint (or gold leaf – but acrylic paint is less expensive) I prefer a more subtle gold color like antique gold or champagne gold rather than a bright gold.
  • oyster shells (or shells of your choosing) – any size but in general, the larger the pattern on the paper used, the larger the shell

The decoupage process can get a little messy, so be sure to cover your work area.  The shells should be clean.  If you plan on using light colored napkins, be sure to use some white acrylic paint as your first step – to cover the dark spots on the inside of the shells so they will not show through the napkin material after decoupaged.  It is probably easiest just to paint the inside of all the shells white to start with nice, clean canvases.

butterfly decoupage oyster shells

After the white paint is dry, use the soft bristled paint brush to cover the entire inside surface of the shell with the decoupage material.  Then, take the desired napkin (top layer only) that has been cut to a manageable size and press it onto the inside of the shell (pattern side up), being careful not to move it (to prevent tearing).  Once it is in place, you can use your finger or the end of the paintbrush to gently push out any obvious wrinkles in the paper.  Next, use the paint brush to very gently brush a thick coat of the decoupage material onto the entire surface of the napkin you have just attached to the inside of the shell.

flamingo trinket dish

Once it is completely covered, you are going to carefully tear the excess paper away from the shell.  This is accomplished by gently using a pulling down motion while tearing.  The sharp edge of the shell makes it pretty easy to tear the thin paper.  The surface will look very milky – that is how it should look.  At this point, let your shell(s) sit overnight.  You will be pleasantly surprised to see how great the dry shell looks when you return the next day!

decoupaged shells with anchors

Clean your brush using very hot water – remember the decoupage material is basically glue!  (For the same reason, you may have to put the top of the decoupage material container under hot running water to loosen the glue when you next reopen it.)

lobster design on oyster shells

For the finishing touch, when your shells are completely dry, you can add a thin gold edge by brushing the gold paint along the edges of the shell with the detail brush.  A thin border of gold accentuates the beautiful organic shape of the shell – each one unique!

And that, my friends, is how to make a decoupaged oyster shell trinket dish!  As you can see, I did my best to explore different colors – using most all the cocktails napkins I happened to have on hand!  (I think most of the napkins I used came from Home Goods or Christmas Tree Shops.  I know the one with the rope motif came from Ikea.)

trinket dish gold and white shell

Thanks for stopping by!  Remember to take pleasure in simple things, Jackie

P.S.  Please note that a Dremel can be used to add holes to the shells if you would rather use them as ornaments and/or hang them.  I plan on using some to make necklaces.  If you are interested in other shell DIYs:  for another oyster shell project, click here.  For shell candles, click here.  For a monogrammed shell tie-on, click here.

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diy couple ornament

April 17, 2020

heart in birches ornament

The severity of the virus isn’t enough – we also have to endure all the residual disappointments – cancellations of 30th birthday parties, bridal and baby showers, weddings, graduations.  As ‘change the date’ cards start to flood mailboxes, I can’t help but feel sad for the many wonderful celebrations that were so lovingly planned only to be crushed by the virus.

With the months – often years – involved in planning, I really can’t imagine having to reschedule a full-blown wedding!  Can you?

field of birches xmas ornament

I’ve been thinking a lot about the people I know with upcoming weddings and that is what inspired the second ornament design in my current black and white collection.  Why black and white?  I grabbed the black and white paint for my first ornament designs (the Schitt’s Creek series in my last post) and just decided to keep those two colors in play.

I love white birch trees and have used them in a lot of different ways in décor – both in store displays and at home.  Maybe it is a tribute to my many years of tent camping!  Using a white birch design on a wood slice seems a natural fit – don’t you think?  It is an easy, graphic design.  Thinking of all the brides I know to be married this year, I made up a bunch of these ornaments, just adding the appropriate initials to each.  They can be boxed up as a gift or tied onto an engagement gift package!

lovers xmas ornament

I hope this inspires you to honor the upcoming brides you know who may be affected by the virus.

Thanks for stopping by!

Take pleasure in simple things and stay healthy, Jackie

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in family we trust

April 10, 2020

bunny pillow happy easter

It is strange to be isolated on Easter.  It certainly is disappointing not to get together with family I don’t often see – especially the newest members of the family.  But it is a time to reflect on the many blessings I have in my family.

egg cups

When times are tough, people show their character.  The virus isolation has taught me a lot about people – some surprising revelations about the true character of people I thought I knew.  But through distancing and some other recent challenges, I’ve found comfort in knowing my family is a constant – something to count on in times of extreme distress.

PicMonkey ImageSo, although my family may not all be sitting around the same table on Sunday as we usually do  – we are all truly together.

egg decor

Wishing you and your family a blessed Easter!

happinest

Remember to take pleasure in simple things, Jackie

chalkboard sign

P.S.  The photos included here represent the limited Easter décor I put out this year.  If you follow my blog, you probably find it hard to believe I didn’t dye any eggs this year since I normally come up with a new theme each year!  Fairfield Country, where I live in CT, has been hard hit by the virus and I have been doing my part by not going out.  So, I haven’t been to a grocery store to purchase eggs!

cadbury eggs

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welcome sign redo

April 7, 2020

Painting supplies for sign

On my first project list of things to accomplish during extra time at home, I included ‘painting a sign for a friend.’  That was a great project because my friend really wanted it done and I loved helping her out.  Plus, I love painting!

The sign was a wooden one that spelled out the word ‘Welcome.’

welcome sign before

Welcome sign ‘before’ photo.

Looking through my Annie Sloan paint collection, I decided on the color graphite to use for the project.  I love this color – a deep gray.  I thought the dark color would be a nice contrast against the wall where my friend planned on hanging the completed sign in her home.

Because the paint color was so dark, no base or primer was needed.  I just painted two coats of Annie Sloan Chalk Paint in graphite directly onto the wood.  Next, I added a thin coat of dark wax.  I did this just to keep the paint in place for the next step – distressing.  I used a very fine sandpaper and sandpaper block to distress the sign.  Obviously, the distressing is a matter of personal taste and I went heavy to accommodate my friend’s taste.  After the distressing was accomplished to my satisfaction, I completed the project by adding a coat of dark wax.  I used the dark rather than the clear wax so that the wood showing through the paint would look aged and not bright white.  In addition, the dark wax deepens the gray color of the graphite paint very nicely.

welcome sign after.jpg

Welcome sign ‘after’ photo.

So, that was the only project left to check off on my first project list.  That list is completed…as well as several more!

hall sign.jpg

The completed sign in its home!

I hope I inspired you to update something in your home with paint!  Thanks for stopping by!

Remember to take pleasure in simple things, Jackie

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