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let’s not be so hard on ourselves!

May 25, 2018

flowers

I feel like the sun knew my work schedule this week and only made an appearance when I was required to be indoors!

Don’t worry, I’m not going take you to any of my places of work for today’s Friday field trip!

Actually, I am just leaving you with something to think about.  I read an article a couple days ago in the New York Times titled: Why You Should Stop Being So Hard on Yourself by Charlotte Lieberman.

treat yourself like a friend

It talked about how self-criticism can take a toll on our minds and bodies and have measurably destructive effects. It struck a nerve with me as I bet it did with a lot of women.  I think most of us are just so darn hard on ourselves!

Pull up the article if you’d like to read more about how we got that way, but I was more interested in what the article had to say about how we can correct it!

The answer is self-compassion – the practice of being kind and understanding to ourselves when confronted with a personal flaw or failure.

At the suggestion of the article, I am making a conscious effort to take a breath after making a mistake, rather than berating myself over it.

remember to take a breath

And, most importantly, trying really hard to practice what it feels like to treat myself as I would treat a friend.

Have a fabulous holiday weekend!

Thanks for stopping by!  Remember to take pleasure in simple things, Jackie

Lieberman, C. (2018, May 22). Why you should stop being so hard on yourself. The New York Times. Retrieved from http://www.nytimes.com

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garden mulch alternative

May 22, 2018

using shells as mulch

Usually my gardens are in order by Mother’s Day.  And, Mother’s Day has always been my goal date to finish planting annuals and have all the mulch down.  This year, the crazy weather caused me to be way behind on my garden schedule.  My only little scraps of time to do yard work were during heavy rains or tornado conditions!  (Yes, tornadoes!  Area schools have been out for 4 days due to the damage caused by tornado touchdowns in Connecticut!)  This year, I actually visited the nursery and purchased my annuals in the powering rain, holding an umbrella!

nautical bird bath

The smallest little garden in my yard is located by my back door.  Because I see it every time I enter or leave the house, I have always tried to do something a little different in that one patch.  In many past years, I have used cocoa hull mulch in that back door garden, because I loved the chocolate smell every time I passed!  Now, it is impossible to find the cocoa mulch – garden centers tell me they stopped carrying it because it attracted animals.  I thought about using beach stones as an alternate mulch.  I am already using beach stones in other gardens and I thought it might add a nice continuity – maybe adding some beach grasses to that garden to give it an added coastal vibe.

shell mulch

So, when I saw oyster shells used as mulch at this year’s flower show in Philadelphia, I thought it might be just the interesting substitute for cocoa mulch that I was looking for!  Besides the fact that people don’t collect oyster shells, we also have a city nearby that boasts 12,000 acres of oyster farms – getting the shells won’t be a problem!

oyster shell mulch

What do you think?  Good idea?  I love the irregular shape and interesting texture!

oyster shells as mulch in garden

Note:  Because oyster shells break down faster than a sturdier shell, like a clam, they may need to be replaced frequently.  So, if you are considering using oyster shells in your own garden, be sure to consider this.

Thanks for stopping by!  Remember to take pleasure in simple things, Jackie

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beauty in simplicity

May 15, 2018

hostas in a vase

A big garden isn’t needed to enjoy the outdoors in your home.

ferns on ferns

Pick a single flower or a single leaf or grab a sprig from shrub clippings.  Even the bad boys in the yard (enter dandelions in seed), can evoke a positive mood – creating the sense of fulfilled wishes or dreams yet to be – when displayed as a single bloom in a container!

white bleeding hearts in vase

If you don’t have a yard, just take a walk through the woods or a public park…heck, you can find a beautiful wildflower on the side of the throughway!

flowers in a teacup lilly of the valley

Then, display your little piece of the outdoors in a container.  No fancy or expensive vase is needed! Just look in your recycling bin or in your cupboards for some great ideas!  Any small vessel will do!  Examples include:  a tiny espresso cup, a teacup, a small milk pitcher, or a glass liquor ‘nip’ bottle or other small discarded bottle.

pansy in nip bottle

Just display this little piece of beauty in any room – in any little scrap of space where you will glance over at it and smile!

lilac with sea glass

The beauty and simplicity of a single flower or leaf is an instant mood lifter and is a great way to display the awesomeness of nature in your home.

flowers in a creamer

I hope I have inspired you to display little pieces of nature in your home!

bush in a vase

Thanks for stopping by!  Remember to take pleasure in simple things, Jackie

The containers in the order they appear:  sea urchin vase from Christmas Tree Shop ($1.99), discarded coconut vodka ‘nip’ bottle, 5 bud vase from Marshall’s ($2.99 in clearance aisle), teacup (a gift), discarded coconut vodka ‘nip’ bottle, found glass bottle, my creamer, sea urchin vase from Christmas Tree Shop.

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warmer days at terrain

May 4, 2018

succulent and lantern

Here in Connecticut, temperatures have skyrocketed and thoughts of snow are finally behind us!  A flurry of garden related thoughts is running through my head!  I can’t wait till Mother’s Day – my official planting day – to get some annuals into the ground!

color my world at terrain

wreath at Terrain

reading materials

For today’s Friday field trip, I thought I would share a little garden inspiration from my favorite garden store.  Here are just a few captures from my last visit to Terrain in Westport.

running water at Terrain

color at Terrain

moss wall at Terrain

Enjoy!  Hopefully, while enjoying a good cup of coffee and sitting on an outdoor terrace or deck in the early morning light!

better days at Terrain

outdoor lanterns at Terrain

framing it at Terrain

Have a fabulous weekend and remember to take pleasure in simple things, Jackie

garden urn at Terrain

colors at Terrain

P.S. If you live close enough to the Westport store for a visit, there are some excited new things happening to check out!

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may book giveaway!

May 1, 2018

pretty happy book by kate hudson

It’s May!  I hope the weather gods got the memo on this because, here in Connecticut, we are in desperate need of some spring-like days!  A new month means a new giveaway!

For May, the giveaway book is Pretty Happy:  Healthy Ways to Love Your Body by Kate Hudson.

I am not a big fan of celebrity books, but this book just spoke to me!  I think Kate has an amazing energy and self-confidence and these attributes are reflected in the pages of her book.  A great mantra for health and happiness, Pretty Happy outlines the four pillars of health Kate has created to help guide her through an authentic life.

page from pretty happy

Reading about the way Kate honors her relationship with herself is sure to inspire and provide you with a few takeaways on how you can create your own authentic self.

Leave a comment for a chance to win a copy of this book!  The winner will be chosen at random at the end of the month.  Good luck! :)

Congratulations to Ginny.  She is the winner of the April giveaway, Honey by Angelo Proseperi-Porta.  Thanks for the email Ginny!  (Click here to read more on this title.)

Instagram users, please read on!  For May, let’s share photos of flowers!  I am so jazzed about starting flower garden preparation and I can’t wait for new blooms this month!  Use hashtag #pleasuregram to share some favorite flower photos!

instagram challenge may 2018

Thanks so much for stopping by!  Remember to take pleasure in simple things, Jackie

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mother’s day diy flower pot

April 24, 2018

diy flower pot

Here is a fun DIY that is easy to create for a sweet Mother’s Day gift.  Once you have a pot made, you can add a plant or pretty much anything that will fit inside!

For me, this project is a great use of Annie Sloan Chalk Paint since it does not use much paint and I always seem to have small amounts of paint left in all my paint cans!  It isn’t an issue that the weather hasn’t cooperated for painting outdoors since pot painting is a small enough project for me to manage indoors.

flower pot diy annie sloan

You will need a paint brush, a light color paint (I used Annie Sloan Old White), a paint in a contrasting color for the lettering (I used some leftover black house paint), and a terracotta flower pot (I got mine at Home Depot).  You may also want to print out a typestyle you like from your computer printer to use as a guide for the painted lettering.

The first step is to ‘dry brush’ the light color paint onto the pot. Dry brushing is a technique where paint is applied to a dry brush and then wiped off so that only a small amount of paint is on the brush when applied to the surface being painted.  Not all the bristles of the paint brush are coated in paint and this results in the surface showing through the paint in sections – giving a vintage look.  If you have never done this before, you can practice on a scrap piece of cardboard – don’t worry, it won’t take long to get the hang of it!

painting flower pots

Once the pot is dry, you can write the desired message onto the pot using a pencil.  Then, use a thin paint brush to paint over the pencil with a dark color paint.

A word of inspiration, a name or nickname, the name of a flower, a zip code, a house number…use one of these ideas or, one of your own, to paint onto the pot.

pansies in a diy pot

If you aren’t comfortable hand lettering onto your painted pot free-hand, you can use a purchased stencil.  Or, a less expensive way would be to print out the letters in the size and typestyle you want from your computer printer and then use the print out to create a homemade stencil.  Or, cut the printed letters out and then trace them with a pencil onto the pot.  (Note:  If you are using a stencil, just remember that the pot is rounded so the letters need to be drawn individually.  If you use a stencil of an entire word, it will not curve properly around the pot.  Position each letter at a 90-degree angle from the top of the pot.)

annie sloan painted pot with pansies

As an optional final touch, after the lettering is dry, use the dry brush technique with the light color paint over the letters.  I prefer to do this last step so the letters look a little more vintage and not so perfect.

zip code flower pot

I hope I have inspired you to make and fill some pots for Mother’s Day gifts!

pansy closeup with diy pot

Thanks for stopping by!  Remember to take pleasure in simple things, Jackie

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repurposed plant materials

April 20, 2018

pink pin

Pieces of jewelry crafted from plant materials are a highlight of the Philadelphia Flower Show each year.  For today’s Friday field trip, please enjoy some of my favorites from the 2018 show!

Blue pin collageGreen necklace collageAlthough the lighting and display cases make it impossible to get great photos, I think you will still be able to grasp the unbelievable creativity in the designs of these pieces.  They are truly works of art.plant based earring collageBlue bracelet collageRemember, these pieces are all crafted from plant materials!  It is hard to believe, even when you see the photo of the items used!

Key necklace collagepink pin collageIf this type of art appeals to you, I encourage you to check out the work of botanical artist, Bridget Beth Collins.  For a treat, follow her Instagram @flora.forager

mint necklace collageThis last one is a handbag!

Turtle bag collageThanks for stopping by!  Have a wonderful weekend!

Remember to take pleasure in simple things, Jackie

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philadelphia flower show 2018

April 6, 2018

plants and books at Philly Flower Show display

My two favorite vignettes at the 2018 Philadelphia Flower Show (the nation’s largest and longest-running horticultural event) were a study in contrasts.  The first, very elegant; the second extremely casual.

plants in the library Philly Flower Show

You can see why this library display would be a favorite of mine –  it showcased plants and books!

desk at Philly Flower Show

The dramatic wall color was the perfect way to offset the gorgeous display of books and plants.

The library at Philly Flower Show

This second, more relaxed display, featured a ‘shipwreck.’  Using a boat to display the plants was a perfect way to incorporate the 2018 show theme Wonders of Water. 

ship displaying plants Philly 2018

steering of ship with plants

Philly Flower Show plant on boat 2018

Is it crazy to think about a similar installation in my backyard?!

boat display Philly Flower Show

plants in boat Philly Flower Show

I hope you enjoyed sharing my two favorite displays from the Philadelphia Flower Show for today’s Friday field trip!

plants on a shipwreck

Thanks for stopping by!  Have a wonderful weekend!

Remember to take pleasure in simple things, Jackie

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just do it chandelier

April 3, 2018

converse chandelier 2

I know my life runs in themes – either that or, my attention to detail just seems to make it easy to create themes in everyday life!

converse global headquarters

On a recent trip to Boston, I made a visit to the global headquarters and flagship store location of Converse (a wholly owned subsidiary of Nike, Inc.)  It was of particular interest to me on this visit because I had just decided to start reading the book Shoe Dog – a memoir by Nike’s creator, Phil Knight -and I was completely immersed in all things Nike.

converse chandelier 1

My favorite part of the headquarters décor, and what I want to share with you today, is the fabulous Chuck Taylor sneaker chandelier installation in the Converse lobby!

converse chandelier 3

The creation is so amazing and so absolutely perfect for the headquarters!

converse chandelier 4

This creativity gives just a tiny hint of the immense amount of creative talent housed inside the building!

converse chandelier 5

I hope you enjoyed seeing this super cool chandelier!

blank canvas 1

Converse Blank Canvas is a unique customization experience only available at the flagship store location. With the help of a designer, visitors can customize and embellish sneakers they purchase at the store.

blank canvas 2

blank canvas 3

view from converse headquarters

A view from inside the Converse global headquarters, located at Lovejoy Wharf, a historic waterfront area and part of Boston’s iconic Freedom Trail.

Check out my newest Chuck Taylor (Chuck 70s) purchase (I also got a coordinating sweatshirt!) from the Converse flagship store in Boston.  I’m really loving the reverse terry fabric!:

chuck 70 reverse terry collageSee more views of my new kicks on my Instagram!

Thanks for stopping by!  Remember to take pleasure in simple things, Jackie

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diy constellation easter eggs

March 6, 2018

Astrological sign Easter eggs by pleasure in simple things blog

I love dyeing Easter eggs.  Each year I like to come up with a new egg decorating idea.  And, I love creating a themed series of decorated eggs!  Remember the picnic theme, for example?  (Click here to see.)  This year I decided to create a series of Easter eggs depicting the astrological constellations.

I started by creating a backdrop for my star formations!  I added purple and a little bit of black paste food coloring to a ½ cup of boiling water with a teaspoon of white vinegar.  I used this to dye my eggs.  Once the eggs were dry, I used an old kindergarten technique to splatter white paint onto each egg.  This simply involves loading a stiff brush or toothbrush with paint and splattering it onto the eggs using a finger or popsicle stick flicked against the bristles of the brush.  (Something I first used when creating leaf prints in kindergarten art class!)

collage with markerNow that a night sky is created on the eggs, I can go ahead and create the individual star formations.  For this, I am using little stick-on crystals from the craft store.  I created a graphic for myself to use as reference for the placement of the stars for each constellation.  I decided to use a thin white marker to add some definition to the star arrangement – even though this wouldn’t happen in the actual sky!  I included a graphic here for you to use as reference when creating your own eggs designs.

Star formations of astrological constellations

These eggs are easy to create and I think they are really cool looking.  Have fun with it!  Create an egg with your own sign, the signs of each family member, or all twelve signs!

cancer constellation Easter egg pleasure in simple things blog

I made mine on emptied out eggs so that I can display them for Easter each year.

I hope I have inspired you to create some astrological sign designed Easter eggs!

Thank you for stopping by!

Remember to take pleasure in simple things, Jackie

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